Letters
Addressing
the Gender Gap
In
the Fall issue, Stephen Golder 70 writes a letter titled The
Male Gender Gap. One of his premises, not stated as boldly
as I will here, is that heterosexual Oberlin-caliber men rely heavily
upon what can only be called the available babes factor
in making their college decisions. If these guys truly have the
intellectual gifts necessary to gain admission, someone needs to
tell them that whether or not there is a large pool of available
babes at Oberlin should not enter into the decision-making
process. I also wonder if perhaps, even if they do possess the intellectual
candlepower to succeed, they ought to be denied admission for lack
of emotional and intellectual maturity. When I, a heterosexual male,
chose Oberlin, my decision was based primarily upon its academic
reputation, even though I was fully aware that there would be a
sizable population of homosexual and bisexual students. Thoughts
of finding my life partner never really entered into
the equation. At 18, I didnt plan to marry until long after
I graduated. And I didnt. I was actively seeking the diversity
that Oberlin promised. I sought exposure to people of other nationalities,
races, religions, belief systems, and yes, people with different
sexual orientations. I hoped to learn from others, and I did.
Whatever the school decides regarding affirmative action for men
really matters to me not at all, as long as the decision-making
process is free of bias. I will be just as proud of my degree and
the College itself if the student body were to become entirely female
or entirely non-heterosexual. I have always believedand Oberlin
helped teach me this lessonthat a well-trained mind and a
compassionate heart are far more important qualities than what may
or may not exist between our legs or whom we choose to kiss goodnight.
Am I wrong about this? Did I miss something?
Finally, I must express my delight at A Students Perspective
written by Peter Meredith 02. Mr. Merediths brief article,
entitled Only in Oberlin, is a work of art. He is an
extraordinarily gifted writer, and he possesses wisdom far beyond
his years. So long as Oberlin continues to get students like Peter,
transient changes in the demographics of the student body will always
be irrelevant.
Paul K. Van Doorn 77
Columbus, Ohio
Editors
Note: Several letters from alumni have expressed concern over a
potential affirmative action policy at Oberlin to admit more male
students. Director of Admissions Paul Marthers 82 and Associate
Director Harry Dawe 58 offer this response: In building
each first-year class, the Oberlin admissions office considers many
factors in creating a diverse mix of intelligent and talented students
who can profit from and contribute to Oberlin College. There is
no affirmative action plan to admit more men, nor is one being considered.
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